Re: Found out he ordered engagement ring now dating try shedding apart
In Response to Discovered he ordered engagement ring nowadays relationship is shedding aside: [QUOTE]I have been dating by boyfriend for 2.5 years. I am 28 and he is 26. Lately I was trying to move around in together with her and that i was hoping which he carry out suggest in the future. He concurred to move in together and we started looking at places. Then i learned which he doesn’t have as much money left shortly after monthly payments for bills (the guy already lifetime together with moms and dads) while i get it done it can generate relocating with her extremely hard to afford. I have been living in a small one bedroom that’s not big enough for the two of us. This lead to fights and me stating that I feel like the relationship isn’t going anywhere and at 28 I really want to be further along in the relationship than we are. Then their younger brother had interested and I got extremely upset and we started fighting even more. During one of our fights he told me that the guy Performed buy me personally an engagement ring already. He only told me that because I was telling him I didn’t feel that he was really committed to this relationship and he isn’t ready to grow up and take the next step. So he told me he got the ring to prove that he is ready to take the next step. So I know that he bought me a ring months ago, but he has not proposed yet, he hasn’t asked my parent’s permission yet. I don’t even think he had an actual proposal plan. And now everything is ruined. He can’t recommend any time soon because it is all out indeed there into the the newest open and nothing are a shock more. And each and every time I discover his sister’s marriage agreements I Freak away! I’m such as for example they are elderly and he must have moved up-and advised first. He knew his sibling are delivering involved in which he currently had the latest ring, therefore i do not know as to the reasons he failed to recommend. During one of our fights I told him that since we can’t afford to live together I feel like an engagement wouldn’t go anywhere anyway. I just don’t know what to do. Everything is such a mess. How can I make this situation better so that he can still propose in a nice way when the time comes? Right now we are barely talking. I feel like we are closer to breaking up than taking the next step forward. And neither one of us wants to break up, but things got so messed up neither one of us know how to fix it. I feel stuck. We can’t move in together and the engagement is ruined, not like he really had a plan for it anyway. I still feel like he wasn’t actually ready to take the next step. Posted by Sokissable415[/QUOTE]